• 继母帮助“You Owe Me!!!”

  • Stepmothers are not 欠 anything.  It's our choice.

    继母就像太阳。
    在我们保持家庭温暖的同时,没有人欠我们任何东西

    欠继母吗?

    哈菲兹说“太阳永远不会对地球说,‘you owe me’.”然而,太阳照亮了整个地球。这就引出了一个问题,“有人欠任何人吗?”我有种直觉,觉得很多继母都在想着自己,“you owe me”。你有没有觉得你的配偶‘owes’您?亲生妈妈怎么样?孩子们?有没有人’t “owed” us?  It’这是一个令人费力的工作的古老故事。所有的父母工作和烦恼没有任何功劳。

    The idea of being 欠 something is another one of those left brained/ego driven thoughts.  When we feel as if we are 欠, does it mean that we are lacking something?  Are we jealous of the bio parents?  Do we yearn for similar status?  Are we basking in the idea that life has been unfair to us while everyone else seems to have it better?