One of the readers that had issue with my usage of the word bio Mom mentioned 翠莎·耶伍德. She said that 翠莎·耶伍德 really has it right when it comes to being a 后妈. I could not agree more. Ms. Yearwood has always shown the ultimate respect for her stepchildren’的父亲和母亲，并一再说她“喜欢自称一个‘bonus mom’ who has become a “third voice” in her stepdaughter’s lives. She has also discussed how scary it was to become a 后妈 and has learned what wonderful relationships can grow with your stepchildren. She is a role model for all of us.